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- Create Date：2022-06-21 09:54:15
- Update Date：2025-09-06
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- Author：Sherry Argov
- ISBN：8327630482
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Fabiola Alvarez
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Por donde empezar con este libro， no me gustó especialmente la primera parte， uff y cuando empieza a meter una partecita de psicoanálisis， me seguía preguntando por qué estaba leyendo este libro。No sé que esperaba al leerlo pero para lo mucho que lo recomiendan， decepciona bastante。 Me niego a creer que los hombres en su mayoría son así como aquí se describen， y si así fuera el caso， gracias Señor por no permitir que haya tenido interacción con ninguno de ellos de manera profunda。Lo que más me d Por donde empezar con este libro， no me gustó especialmente la primera parte， uff y cuando empieza a meter una partecita de psicoanálisis， me seguía preguntando por qué estaba leyendo este libro。No sé que esperaba al leerlo pero para lo mucho que lo recomiendan， decepciona bastante。 Me niego a creer que los hombres en su mayoría son así como aquí se describen， y si así fuera el caso， gracias Señor por no permitir que haya tenido interacción con ninguno de ellos de manera profunda。Lo que más me disgustó fue sin duda que sigue perpetuando los estereotipos de género， por ejemplo， cuando menciona: "Los hombres tienen una aversión a hablar de sus sentimientos" ¿por qué será que algunos se sienten así？ ¿tal vez， la sociedad？ Pero en lugar de sugerir algo más empático， su consejo es: No te intereses en ellos de esa forma porque te hace parecer rogona。 Y a lo largo del libro da más consejos parecidos， y me pregunto ¿Qué buscan cuando tratan de estar en una relación？ ¿No tener nunca una relación profunda donde ambos puedan ser auténticos， compartir sentimientos y emociones？ ¿Cuándo llegas a mostrarte como eres？ ¿Siempre tienes que estar limitandote para no perder tu encanto y amaestrando al hombre para que actúe según lo que tu quieras？Por otra parte no todo es malo， hay algunos consejos rescatables， pero como conjunto deja mucho que desear。 。。。more
Beyza
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I really really liked this book！ I think it really helped me to improve my self-esteem。 Sounds stupid but yeah I learned a lot of new stuff even about myself。It’s definitely a book every overcaring guurl should readxoxo
Ana
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noIncredibly sexist which is crazy coming from a female author…it has some good sayings some “ok advise” but at the end of the day the book just makes excuses for men being assholes just bc “they’re men”。 The right guy will not get annoyed talking about feelings or dealing with you。
Ceres Graça
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I love it 📕😍🥰
Kristen Bell
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A great reminder about maintaining self respect， keeping your power over yourself and not changing for anyone
Jasmine C
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I liked the core message of this book。 However， I found it relied rather strongly on stereotypes that I found could be interpreted as misogynistic - more on that below。There were some nuggets of really good advice in this book that has earned it a 2 star rating。 Lots of emphasis on self-confidence， sticking to boundaries， and not accepting bad behaviour。 It is a good reminder of valuing yourself over what a potential date wants you to be， which I think would be applicable to someone who is out a I liked the core message of this book。 However， I found it relied rather strongly on stereotypes that I found could be interpreted as misogynistic - more on that below。There were some nuggets of really good advice in this book that has earned it a 2 star rating。 Lots of emphasis on self-confidence， sticking to boundaries， and not accepting bad behaviour。 It is a good reminder of valuing yourself over what a potential date wants you to be， which I think would be applicable to someone who is out actively seeking dates and meeting new people in a dating context。I love the message that you should set up expectations early on when it comes to household duties， and to call out BS in a straightforward way。However， there's a side of the book that makes me uncomfortable。 There's a chapter that encourages women to be a "dumb fox"， which essentially boils down to pretending not to be able to do things （e。g。 changing a light bulb， dealing with a bug） and then praising the man for doing them because he is so smart and "I could never"。 It's portrayed in a positive light - building up his ego so he will feel good about doing hands on things in the relationship。 While I agree that it's good to express appreciation， going as far as is suggested in the chapter is a problem for a couple of reasons。 In my mind， this approach directly goes against the "be yourself" message from earlier chapters。 It's coming from the assumption that women should present as ultra-feminine， even going as far as to say that men don't want to date women who look/act like a man。 My response is absolutely biased by the fact that I take joy in hands-on activities around the house and fixing things up， however I would argue that this is a very limited view of both men and women， and a women can be both capable and attractive。There is a lot of focus on control and who has control over the other in a relationship。 I get where some of that is coming from， but to view relationships as strongly influenced by this is quite toxic。 Making him feel like "the Grand Poo-Bah" while you have all the control over what actually happens via mind games and quiet manipulation seems exhausting。 Some of the behaviours regarding power dynamics and control had me eyeing my Kindle and muttering， "Oh， honey， no。 That's a kink。" Overall， some good messages and reminders， but it's in amongst a very "girly-girl searching for toxic masculinity" lens。 。。。more
Kerolos Luka
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It was a disgusting book。。 He treats women as a commodity。 I think the women them selves don`t Like this book。 I think it talks about just dating not a complete relationship with Marriage or even engagement。。。 it so so so bad。。 I didn`t complete the book because I don`t Like its idea。 as a man I hope when I will be in a relationship with a woman I hope if I be her Priorities。。。 I don`t like a woman don`t love me 100% hold for me and I hold for her 100%。This book make the relationship is so compl It was a disgusting book。。 He treats women as a commodity。 I think the women them selves don`t Like this book。 I think it talks about just dating not a complete relationship with Marriage or even engagement。。。 it so so so bad。。 I didn`t complete the book because I don`t Like its idea。 as a man I hope when I will be in a relationship with a woman I hope if I be her Priorities。。。 I don`t like a woman don`t love me 100% hold for me and I hold for her 100%。This book make the relationship is so complicated。 。。。more
Yara Yu
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كتاب لا معني له كلام يباع تحت شعار نصائح لتقوية العلاقات والناس تشتري وتأخذ به ويكتب علي نسخ الكتاب الجديده الكتاب الأكثر مبيعا لا يخدعك العنوان فهو كتاب تجاري لذلك العنوان مهم لشد القارئ فالمقصود هنا ليس ما يعنيه العنوان بل المقصود هو لماذا يحب الرجال النساء القويات وتعطي الكاتبه نصائح للنساء بألا تترك زمام الأمور في العلاقة والا تظهر حبها واهتمامها و الا والا الي ما لا نهاية لماذا كل هذا التعقيد في العلاقات لماذا لا تختار المرأة بشكل صحيح من البداية لتكون علاقة سويه والا تحتاج كل هذا التعقيد ف كتاب لا معني له كلام يباع تحت شعار نصائح لتقوية العلاقات والناس تشتري وتأخذ به ويكتب علي نسخ الكتاب الجديده الكتاب الأكثر مبيعا لا يخدعك العنوان فهو كتاب تجاري لذلك العنوان مهم لشد القارئ فالمقصود هنا ليس ما يعنيه العنوان بل المقصود هو لماذا يحب الرجال النساء القويات وتعطي الكاتبه نصائح للنساء بألا تترك زمام الأمور في العلاقة والا تظهر حبها واهتمامها و الا والا الي ما لا نهاية لماذا كل هذا التعقيد في العلاقات لماذا لا تختار المرأة بشكل صحيح من البداية لتكون علاقة سويه والا تحتاج كل هذا التعقيد في المجمل كتاب بلا معني 。。。more
Josephine Wirth
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I saw so many good recomenndations of this book so I gave it a chance and I got upset very quickly。 While there are a lot of points I can agree with the author， like putting yourself first， not giving him the upper hand or being independent so he meets you because he likes too， there are a lot of points she had I was shocked。 First of all， she gives the image that EVERY men is like this。 And every men isn’t in control over his masculinity。 If I need to manipulate a men like this， I rather stay s I saw so many good recomenndations of this book so I gave it a chance and I got upset very quickly。 While there are a lot of points I can agree with the author， like putting yourself first， not giving him the upper hand or being independent so he meets you because he likes too， there are a lot of points she had I was shocked。 First of all， she gives the image that EVERY men is like this。 And every men isn’t in control over his masculinity。 If I need to manipulate a men like this， I rather stay single。 If a man is pissed by my emotions， sorry but grow up and grow yourself some balls。 You aren’t weak if you talk about emotions - indeed talking about your emotions and being in control of them gives you real power。 Because HE cannot rattle it。 。。。more
maddy recker
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must read。
Meg
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I mean… I used to co-sign this book hard… then I healed。 To keep it short: I don’t feel like I need to play games to be loved。 I am worthy of love even if I choose to be soft and in my feminine。 This book is telling you to be in your masculine more…Some points were cool and fun sure。 Manipulation is fun， why not？ But none of this seems sustainable or authentic to me。
Sofia Sinclair
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Absolutely loved this book
Jena Paramesh
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Liked it until it started saying people will respect you more if you hold out longer - at that point I started questioning how the book takes a more conservative stance that’s somewhat outdated in the hyper sexualized environment college women have to navigate。 Although some of the takeaways still hold true it’s not enough for me to refer to this as a “bible” as others have。
Linnea
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PLEASE。 Read this。 So so funny。 Not rlly a story more just lists of reasons to laugh。
cherrygrl
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it was Great until u actually taught me how to get a man why do i have to act dumb on the outside and run the show on the inside？ feminism ruined My perception
Casee Love
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Great read。 Definitely gave me a good perspective on how men think。
Monika
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The title is so catchy。
Sofina
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often a bit repetitive， but maybe the points are worth repeating。
طاقچه
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چرا مردان زنان زیرک را دوست دارند؟، عنوان کتابی است که در مورد باورهایی که مردها در مورد زنها دارند، حرف میزند。 این میکروکتاب یک راهنمای عملی برای خانمهاست و به آنها کمک میکند که وقتی در مقابل مردی قرار میگیرند، چه واکنشی از خود نشان دهند تا مانند یک زن زیرک به نظر برسند، نه یک زن ساده که همواره از مردهای اطراف خود ضربه میخورد。 این کتاب بیش از یک میلیون نسخه چاپی در امریکا فروش داشته است。https://taaghche。com/audiobook/97408/。。。 چرا مردان زنان زیرک را دوست دارند؟، عنوان کتابی است که در مورد باورهایی که مردها در مورد زنها دارند، حرف میزند。 این میکروکتاب یک راهنمای عملی برای خانمهاست و به آنها کمک میکند که وقتی در مقابل مردی قرار میگیرند، چه واکنشی از خود نشان دهند تا مانند یک زن زیرک به نظر برسند، نه یک زن ساده که همواره از مردهای اطراف خود ضربه میخورد。 این کتاب بیش از یک میلیون نسخه چاپی در امریکا فروش داشته است。https://taaghche。com/audiobook/97408/。。。 。。。more
s。
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theres actually some decent， valuable advice in this。 it was a pretty enjoyable read！
Angel
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Author has some good ideas （the importance of self confidence and boundaries）。 She doesn’t talk about the psychology of men in the way that I was hoping but more so degrading them which was unhelpful。
Cassandra Rodriguez
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Literally the worst book I’ve ever read in my entire existence。 If a man can’t put up with you and the way you are then please just leave him。 Do yourself a favor don’t give this author any money nor give them your time。 This is absolutely absurd。 I hate the fact that this was trending and the fact this sits on booksellers shelves。 Literally the biggest crime to ever face the earth。 I hate all men I stand by that and you should too。 Why are we reading books to satisfy them please just satisfy yo Literally the worst book I’ve ever read in my entire existence。 If a man can’t put up with you and the way you are then please just leave him。 Do yourself a favor don’t give this author any money nor give them your time。 This is absolutely absurd。 I hate the fact that this was trending and the fact this sits on booksellers shelves。 Literally the biggest crime to ever face the earth。 I hate all men I stand by that and you should too。 Why are we reading books to satisfy them please just satisfy yourselves and burn this book for self care。 Peace and love slay girl slay。 。。。more
Catherine
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I thought that at some points there was good advice but there's also some not good advice in here haha。 Still empowering and I liked most of it I thought that at some points there was good advice but there's also some not good advice in here haha。 Still empowering and I liked most of it 。。。more
Erica
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The title is attention grabbing but can be a turn off， however this book is phenomenal。 When sherry says b*tch she’s not talking the type of woman your thinking。 Essentially in a very funny way she’s given a guide book on how women can really enter their feminine but weed out all the time wasters and really hold her own in all aspects of what relationships bring。 The book was funny， informative and empowering in a way。 Would definitely recommend for my girlfriends to read。
Nandini
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DNF👎🏽
Charlotte Bell
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The book was quite a funny read as the term ‘bitch’ is only used to refer to an independent women who does whatever she pleased。 But was quite long ！
Eleazer Dadzie
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Please how do you actually read a book？
Kennedy
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The male species are so confusing but this read does put a lot into perspective。 Men really are from a different planet to us women but this book helps with a lot of explanation into why they do certain things; which really will help you with dating。 Good read but if you aren’t from America then you have to take some of the analogies differently
Yuna
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Utile à lire， en faite c'est un livre que toutes les femmes devraient avoir sous la main pour connaitre les bases de bien "gérer" une relation amoureuse et d'avoir une bonne relation avec soi - le plus important。 Utile à lire， en faite c'est un livre que toutes les femmes devraient avoir sous la main pour connaitre les bases de bien "gérer" une relation amoureuse et d'avoir une bonne relation avec soi - le plus important。 。。。more
werka
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